Insufferable

I've been guilty lately of getting irritated with others whining and entitled-ness.

With people throwing pity parties for themselves and thinking the world is against them.

It's annoying.

Then last night I had the thought come to me, "they don't need to be judged, they need to be loved".

God speaks to me in short phrases that if I listen, I'm able to completely reverse my thinking. 

I believe another word for that reversal is repentance.

And charity suffereth long, and is kind, and envieth not, and is not puffed up, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil, and rejoiceth not in iniquity but rejoiceth in the truth, beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.     Moroni 7:45

I'm grateful for the charity that God and others show me when I'm insufferable.

Looking Ahead

I'm the kind of driver that likes to anticipate.

I watch the opposite traffic light to prepare for when my light turns green.

And I'm constantly checking my mirrors to try and see who's coming and going around me.

One time, when I was getting ready to merge into traffic from a stopped position, I ended up hitting the car in front of me.

I had been watching for when I could go and forgot that it wasn't my turn.

It's a lesson that I try to teach my kids.

Don't just anticipate - look at what's in front of you.

I have realized that it's not just a driving lesson.

There are times when I am so focused on the future and what is ahead, that I forget to look around and see what is happening right in front of me.

Looking ahead is good.

Seeing and being in the present is more important.