Showing posts with label blog. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blog. Show all posts

Thursday, January 11, 2018

Just Write

Some time back before Christmas I decided to give up social media.

I recently had given up sugar. 


Not because it's "bad", but because I had noticed some effects it had on me that I didn't like. 


So, it was also a bit of an experiment to see if it changed some of these physical things.


It did.


I feel 100% better not eating sugar. 


And I don't even crave it so much because I know what it does to me.


When I started, I wrote down some things that I wanted to replace the sugar with. 


Eat an apple, a handful of nuts, drink some water.



I don't think that social media is bad, but I did feel that I was spending too much time on it.

I had also been thinking about all the books I used to read and wondering why I didn't read anymore.


Was it just because I had gotten busy?


But, really I stopped reading when I got a smart phone and when Facebook came out.



--Sidetrack --
I love Facebook!!
I love being "in touch" with old college roommates and old friends and knowing what is going on in people's lives.
How did I ever live without it?
I guess I had to be more diligent about keeping in touch.
I wasn't.
And I actually had to write letters or make phone calls.
I didn't.
Who has time for that? 
Well, I guess people who aren't spending time looking at their phone at the hundreds of people they're keeping in touch with.

Anyway, my main point was that I wanted to free up some time. 


Or at least experiment and see if it freed up some of my time.


So, I wrote down some things that I would like to replace that time with.


READ

CLEAN
VISIT
WRITE

I've gotten good at replacing social media with reading. 


(In some ways, it's not that different!)


I've already finished 3 books!


My house is cleaner.


And I've been able to make visits to neighbors and friends that I haven't in the past.



But, what about writing?


Why do I want to write?


When I write, I just put all kinds of jumbled thoughts down.


And as I do that, things become clearer.


I'm not saying that I'm a good writer.


But, I'm not bad at editing.


I spend less time writing all the jumbled thoughts than thinking about what I've written and getting it just right.


So, that's what I'm going to do.


Just write.

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Finished

Well, I made it through my blog marathon.  I posted for 26 days in a row.

And although I have only run a half-marathon, I think I experienced some of the same emotions during this writing period.

I started off feeling great about this goal that I had set for myself.  And it really didn't seem that hard.

As time went on, I started to realize how long this was really going to be and that it was going to take a lot of effort to do it.  But, I still believed as long as I just worked hard I would be ok.

But, then I got to a point where I just didn't know what to write about at all.  It was like hitting a wall.  And I couldn't have made it without having someone actually help me along (using my husband's speech).

It was then that I finally was able to see the end of the tunnel.  I realized that I could make it the last little bit.  And in some ways it almost got easy again.

English was never my favorite subject in school and I have never considered myself a writer.    But, as I looked back on my month's work, I realized that maybe I was.


I think this probably always happens when I am trying to make changes in my life or set goals for myself.  I get kind of excited at the beginning and have a lot of motivation to make it happen.

Then, once I'm in the middle of it I start to realize how much work it is really going to take.  This is where I have to decide to either give up or push through it.

And there is always the point when l realize that I just cannot do it on my own.  I need help.  This is when I have to turn it completely over to the Lord.

Finally, I realize that I am almost finished and at this point it has become so much a part of me that it's almost easy.  And I have added a new level to my life, to my faith.

But, the thing is, I am never really finished.  

There will always be things that I need and want to improve.  Attributes of Christ that I need to make more a part of me.

Realizing that there will be hard times and I'll need help and that it will eventually just become a part of me, will help me make it through.

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Arts & Economic Development

Because it's getting harder each day to think of something to write . . .

. . . and because I'm trying to spend more time making helping my kids get their schoolwork done . . .

. . . and because my husband is awesome . . .

I'm posting his talk to the Eastern Idaho Arts Council about the relationship between Art and Economic Development.


Thank you all for being here today. And special thanks to Dan and Kara for all the hard work they’ve put into today’s events. I’m here because I’m the Economic Development Director for Fremont County, and I’ve been asked to speak today on Art and Economic Development.

We know, from what we’ve seen in other places that art can be a good strategy for economic development. Some of the things that have worked are; murals, art in vacant storefronts, providing marketing help or business advice to local artists, and community arts events like gallery strolls, art walks, and rambles.

These things work for a variety of reasons, but they are good economic development tools because:
  • They are home-grown successes. They aren’t some cookie-cutter idea that an agency pulled off of the shelf and tried to force on a community. They are local ideas, our ideas – thought up right here in our community. They work because they fit.
  • They fit because they start small and then grow up until they are the right size for our community and its needs.
  • They also work because one of the amazing, if not magical, things about art is that art nurtures art. Investing time, effort and money into the arts not only provides enjoyment, expression and (hopefully) livelihood to some of our community, it also inspires new artists.
I want to talk some more about that last point, the nurturing power of art, but I’m done talking about economic development. Because, really, economic development is too narrow a subject. If we’re supporting art in order to expand our tax base, then we are working in the service of very small gods indeed.

I want to talk about art and community building. That is, I want to talk about the role and worth of art, and a community of artists, in a healthy and vibrant community.

Now, lots of people over the years have talked about the value of art as public expression or because of the diversity it fosters. I don’t need to re-say what any of those people have said. Also, Dan and Kara are going to talk about art and community in a minute, and I don’t want to take away from anything that they will say. So I’m going to limit my comments on the worth of art to two brief points.

First, any community with a healthy arts scene is strengthened by the way artists work. That is, artists make their living by reaching out to others and building connections. If you have art in your community, you have people who are actively building ties and strengthening the community. In a modern economy that often replaces personal, local relationships with bandwidth and global contacts, you need as many people as possible to be getting together and talking about stuff right here at home.

Second, let’s go back to that idea that one of the things that makes art powerful is that art nurtures art. It happens that, because of the way we human creatures are wired, before there can be art, there must be artistic thoughts. This is the particular value of art that I really want to emphasize today.

Art nurtures art by fostering, inspiring, enticing the sort of thoughts that lead to more art. That thinking, that spark of creativity, adds value to the quality of life of the whole community, even if, in a given instance, it doesn’t lead all the way to the creation of an actual piece of art.

That spur to creative thinking is capable of adding more – of everything really – to those communities that enjoy it. More art, of course, but also more ideas all around. More active citizens, richer democracy, more friends made, more problems solved and better solutions to those problems, too.

That’s why we need art. We think better when art is part of our lives. When we think better, we are better people. And better people make better communities. So I wasn’t kidding when I said that economic development is too small a reason to make or support art. In fact, if I had any advice about art and economic development, it would be to just do art and let the economy ride on its coattails.
Thank you.

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Re-Post: Life is A Battlefield

I'm going to be totally lame because it's Saturday and I want need to get as much stuff done as possible.  So I'm re-posting one of my kids' favorite (Ok, it's one of my favorites too and it may or may not also still be applicable today.)

Slowly she creeps across the bleak landscape. Wary and unsure of her next step.
Visions of her partner's battle wound press into her mind. The scar will always be there as a reminder.
Some have no problem navigating through the area. And yet, for her, each step is a painful reminder of what once was.
There are those who would gladly do the job for the right compensation. But with no resources it is up to her, and her alone.
If only.
No, those thoughts must not be allowed to take over. She must live in the present and deal with what is before her.
Questions will only lead to distractions.
Distractions lead to neglect.
Neglect leads to, well, to this.
Eventually all of this must stop.
Bravely she stoops down.
Carefully, carefully.
She reaches for the nearest object, avoiding the urge to look around too much. Then slowly she stands again.
One down, who knows how many more to go.

Anyone feel like cleaning up my living room for me?

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

107 Memory Lane

Last night I decided to go through some of my old blog posts and see what I had written.

I was cracking myself up. (no self-esteem issues last night!)

I also realized that I have posted over 100 times.

A lot of my posts were lessons that I needed to be reminded about.

I like having this blog to be able to remember what I have learned in the past and to help me with what I need to learn today.

Lately, there have been some very kind comments about my blog helping others and saying what they needed to hear at exactly the right time.

And, although I write to sort my own feelings out, it makes me happy that others can relate to what I am going through.

I get nervous sometimes that I write the same things over and over again.

And that's probably because I have to learn the same lessons over and over again.

But, I believe that learning is what we are meant to do.

Please feel free to share any of my posts with whomever you'd like. (really, I'm just trying to get my followers up to 20!)

I like knowing that I'm learning this life with others.

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

My Blog "Marathon"

I have always wanted to do a marathon. 

And I really hope to run one someday. 

But,for now, I've decided to do a marathon blog instead. 

My plan is to post something every day for 26 days. 

There are a couple of reasons I want to do this.  But, mostly I feel the need to create something.

And hopefully combat the depression that comes this time of year.  (You know the kind that comes from no sun and freezing cold temperatures!)  

Anyone else want to join me?  I love reading other people's blogs.

And just so you know, I'm totally counting today and yesterday, so I only have to post 24 more times in a row!

Thursday, December 2, 2010

highlights

Mothers of teenage daughters - unite! My oldest came home from school and said, "guess what? my friend's mom took all of her clothes away and is making her pay to get them back." HA!


My magical powers are increasing daily.


Halloween discussion between children:
"maybe I'll be a vampire"
"as long as you're not a sparkly one"


The curse of the jumper: what is it with jumpers making me gain weight?


I drove the "smaller" car [chevy suburban] the other day and hit my head getting in. I felt so little driving it.


Just a few updates and some things that I've meant to blog about but haven't.

(by the way, you have to click on the underline stuff to "get it")

Friday, April 16, 2010

Winner

Wow - I won something!

Kind of funny considering what our family motto used to be.

My friend has this great blog with lots of cool stuff and funny stuff and just stuff that reminds me how great she is. She is my blogging guru who I call when I have questions on how to do cool stuff to my blog (Its not her fault that I don't).

Anyway, she had a giveaway and I dutifully left a comment. And I won this.

It was such a great thing to happen because I've been feeling a little down (family: please note that I know this is a normal valley in the journey of life and really everything is ok).

It just made me smile to know that I won at something. Just a little spark but enough to make things better.

And even though I'm very excited for the prize, it's actually the winning part that I'm most excited about.

So, I've decided that I want to be a winner at something every day. Something random.

But what can moms win?

Making it through the day without yelling is an accomplishment but doesn't really feel like winning.

I know, I'll come up with some contest with my kids. Like let them choose a winning word and if I happen to say it that day then I win!

Ok, that could get ugly.

But I like winning; so I'm open for suggestions.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Knock Knock

First, I'm probably not alone in the blogger world of being "comment needy". (I really try not to be.) Most of the time when I post, it is just for me to get it out of my head and on down on paper.

But, last week due to a post that I mistakenly thought was spam (sorry bro) I put on comment moderation and then forgot to moderate. It was a while before I remembered why I might not be getting comments.

Second, I'm always surprised when someone like my mom says so and so was reading your blog the other day . . . (really?)

It makes me wonder who is reading this stuff?

So, I put on a visitor counter thing and was once again surprised at the numbers. (Maybe its just mostly me checking on the numbers but I don't think I check that much. )

Anyway, all this got me thinking that I should find out who is really reading this blog 'o mine.

Here's the fun part: (if you wouldn't mind) I want to invite anyone who reads this blog to leave a comment [anonymously] describing yourself. You can be as specific as you want or random.

For example, I know I lurk on other people's blogs and never comment because I'm pretty sure they wouldn't know me from Adam and that just seems weird. But I would leave a comment anonymously like "found this blog from my best friends neighbors sisters aunts husbands blog" or "like you I'm mother to a cranky newborn"

Get the idea? I think it would be fun and funny.

And I'm totally admitting to my comment neediness on this one!

Thanks for playing.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

New Blog

I'm trying out a new blog.

http://foodthatworks.blogspot.com

Mostly because I am bored with all of my recipes and I hate coming up with the 2 week menu.

Please feel free to add "comments" (recipes) so I don't have to think so much. (You can comment on any of them even the old ones.)
I've already used some of the ideas with great success!

Friday, November 14, 2008

8 Things

1. I almost always wear socks. I can't stand barefeet.

2. I still dream about playing professional soccer some day.

3. I used to hate to shower and now I can't really start my day until I do.

4. I hate changing my clothes. (that is once I've finally decided on what to wear)

5. I have no desire to work.

6. I never watch tv.

7. My husband cracks me up with his songs. (he makes them up all the time)

8. I totally wish I homeschooled my kids.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Aaargh!

I'm trying so hard to be a good blogger. 

I'm trying to make my page look not so boring. 

So I'm looking at all the cute backgrounds I could get for my blog and they all have flowers or cute little things on them that look like scrapbooks stuff. 

I am not a scrapbooker. Unless you count putting pictures on a white page and then writing something about it next to it. That's at least a step up from cutting out sayings that I found from magazines and putting them with the pictures. 

Of course, now I don't even print my pictures off of my camera or computer. At least, I try to leave my computer on so we can at least see some of the pictures on the screen saver (for 3 seconds). 

But back to the cute blog thing. I don't really want a cute blog. 

I just want it to look the way I feel, which if there was one with sweatpants and chocolate maybe I'd be all about that one. 

Actually, maybe my problem is that I'm not really sure what I'm doing here!!!! Help. Any tips or comments are appreciated! 

As for now, I will just continue on . . . you know . . . NEVER GIVE UP!

Sunday, July 6, 2008

The Title

So, a little explanation for the title of my blog,
"Never Give Up!"
Several years ago, when we lived in Tooele, my oldest child entered a citywide coloring contest. She had her hopes up that she would win. So to get her prepared for any result I told her that "Cluff's never win." I thought it was kind of a harmless little thing for her to learn at the age of 4, because face it, most of the time we lose. When some of my friends heard this little saying they thought it was sad - so we added "but at least they keep trying".

Well, she ended up winning something.

The next time there was a contest, we couldn't use the first mantra, so we changed it to, "we might not win, but we'll never give up". Well the last part of that has just developed a life of its own. Cluff's never give up!

When this started I had no idea the impact it would have on my family.
  • This is too hard - Cluff's never give up!
  • I don't want to . . . - Cluff's never give up!
  • That's not fair - Cluff's never give up!
  • But everyone else . . . - Cluff's never give up!

Its effect has not just been for the kids either. Right now we have some major obstacles looming in front of our family. Major decisions that must be made. It would be so much easier to take the road well-traveled. To just go the way its already going. But what do I keep hearing in my head -

Cluff's never give up!

Thursday, July 3, 2008

The Beginning of Something Great

I guess its about time I started doing this. I constantly have a running blog in my head, so I might as well share it with the world.

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